Becoming confident in every, or any areas in your life could seem impossible, or challenging, but the truth is that your brain only serves you what you ask for.
When you tell yourself “I can’t do this”, or “this is too difficult” or “this can never be possible” or “I am not capable” etc, your brain immediately gets your signal (your request) and immediately, it gets to work to make sure it satisfies you with everything you requested.
Have you ever told yourself “ I don’t think I’ll make it because I’m not ready” before going in to take a test, an exam, a job interview? In other words have you ever failed yourself, or given up even before trying? What was the outcome?
When you discourage yourself in anything want to do, you automatically tell your brain to provide you with evidence to back up your lies or beliefs. This is why when you get the result you anticipated, you become convinced that you were right after all, which of course is a lie, all you did was to program your mind to fail ahead of time.
You instructed your brain to focus on the negative talks you fed it with, and to bring back evidence to back you up. This is how you premeditate your outcomes.
These tools will help boost your confidence:
- Surround yourself with people who view your weakness as another opportunity to teach, support, and strengthen you until you get it right. These are people with a growth mindset, people who believe abundance is a possibility.
- Learn to journal.
- Focus, and do more of the things you love.
- Communicate effectively, be specific, and intentional.
- Practice silence and know when to apply it.
- Always be around people who escalate and bring your value/worth/vision/passion/potential to a whole new level of success.
- Create, and practice your positive Affirmations every day.
- Practice self care.
- Learn to accept and love yourself.
- Always remember you are amazing in your uniqueness.
Regardless of what area of your life you want to develop or improve your confidence in, be it your #Relationship, #Wealth, #Health, #Yourself, #Family, #Career, #Business etc, the 10 tips I just shared above will help you rewire your brain/reset your mind, so that you can see past the limitations you placed upon yourself, which will then allow you to develop confidence, ONLY if you put them into practice.
